Getting Started In Divorce Mediation

Before scheduling the first mediation session, each party will be spoken to by telephone. This initial conversation is used as an opportunity for the mediator to obtain basic information from each of the parties and answer any questions the clients may have. There is no charge for this consultation.

The first meeting is approximately one hour and will be held jointly.  This time will be used to obtain information from both parties that will be pertinent to the mediation process and creation of the final document.  The mediator will give the parties a list of important documents needed for the mediation process to proceed smoothly and in a reasonable time frame. Please bring a completed copy of the Client Questionaire to the first meeting. 

The next meeting is approximately one hour and is held separately. This time is used as an opportunity to describe the  mediation process in detail. It is also a time when each party has the opportunity of sharing what is important to them, what their priorities are, what their concerns are and what their options are. After the initial meetings the parties will come together for their first joint session.

The joint sessions are approximately two hours per session. During this time the couple will work together toward a common goal; developing an agreement that is uniquely suited to their situation and family. Through the mediation process and with the help of the mediator, couples are able to find ways to integrate their concerns, and achieve a settlement that will work for each of them.

When a settlement has been reached, a Memorandum of Understanding will be drafted. This memorandum confirms what has been agreed upon in each of the joint meetings. It becomes the basis for the separation agreement. The Memorandum of Understanding is NOT a legally binding agreement and it is strongly recommended that each party then take this agreement to an attorney for review and drafting of a legal separation agreement.